Hi,
Just wanted to get a little input in which I probably already know the answer to.

I have been divorced since May 29th. And I still find myself thinking about my ex wife daily. A couple things have happened since my last post. The last time I contacted her was just to see how she was doing and say hi. Her response was simply......."wonderful, and please leave me alone" So I have not contacted her since.

On facebook she continues to post things that show how fabulous her life is. And she looks so happy that she has moved on with her life. She has moved into her aunts house becaause the house was left to her after her aunt passed in march and therefore is selling the house that her and I lived in. I am assuming she is trying to erase as many memories as possible.

I am wondering everyones opinion on if I should take the time to send her card on her birthday next week , email her or just continue to leave her alone....

This is still killing me and i jyst cannot seem to get over her no matter what i do. I want to acknowledge her bday and i know she will not respond anyway but i want to do it just because that is how i am. i expect nothing in return.

what should i do


Me 33
W 32
Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13