Hi, I just read up on your sitch. So have you finished the whole DB book?
One of my H's complaints was that I had stopped initiated sex. So, I do now. But, I also don't take it personal when he doesn't want too. When it did hurt my feelings, I never showed it to him. Sometimes, we just don't want it, ha.
WTG on getting in shape!!! DON'T JUDGE YOUR SUCCESS BY THE SCALE!! Especially if you are weight training. When I started lifting I went down a size and lost not one pound. I'm very passionate about health and fitness (I'm a personal trainer), so I so believe in the power of working out to help with stress relief. Keep it up!!
I would definately keep up the touching and initate now and again, but if/when he turns you down, just say "OK... :coy smile: let me know if you change your mind!" Being playful about it helps. Also, I realized that I had stopped...um, giving without getting if you know what I mean. And 9 times out of 10 it always ends in ML anyway. Sex is fun, make it FUN!!!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
