Bumping with another question in addition to the above:
Am I stupid for wanting to R with my STBX in spite of the possible cheating, the TRO, etc.?
The first question is a little tougher, so I'll take this one.
No, you are absolutely NOT STUPID for wanting to R with your STBX. You are only stupid if you don't take this opportunity and learn and grow from it.
All the best,
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
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