It's not who I want to be, it's who I am. So if I'm trying to do a 180 then I would say no to her on most everything. But if I want this DBing thing to work then I understand that we have to be friends before anything else can form again. Helping her out would be a friendly thing to do but I don't want her thinking she knows she can ask me to do anything and ill say yes cause she knows I want our marriage to work in the end.
As for as expectations go, yes, I can do it without any. I just see it as helping her out when she needs it. So I guess I answered that. Thanks


M:33
W:32
Married:8
Together:10
S:5,4 and 8 months
BD: 4/1/13
W move out day: 5/4/13
ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship