A friend of mine posted a quote of FB having to do with marriage and not walking away when things get difficult and then compared it to walking away from your kids if they became difficult to parent. I sent it to H and I told him that I will not give up on him. While I hate the R that we are in, I know that he is going through some difficult stuff internally, along with the alcohol. Some days, I really do want to throw in the towel. Even if/when I move, I don't think I will give up immediately.
My cousin posted this same quote on her FB yesterday and I thought about "sharing" in on my FB too so my H would happen to see it, but then decided not to. lol
I'm new to the boards so I have to go back an read your first thread, but I see your strength from what I've read thus far. Sending positive thoughts your way!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
