No I didn't get charged, but where I live the police do not usually get involved in minor matters without pretty good grounds - He accused me at the beginning of 2009, just over three years after the alleged assault occurred, and apologised 2 years later, saying it was silly. He used it as part of the grounds for divorce - that I used violence and physical threats against him.
I was pretty upset at the time, even without the threat of court action. It must be awful for you. Hopefully the courts will have some common sense in a world that seems to have gone mad.