Hi Hopeful,

I can so relate to having an H that doesn't get money. I cringe when I read your posts sometimes because some aspects are so similar. Like your H, my H says all sorts of things when he's mad that he doesn't follow through on.

Well done on your 180s. It sounds as if you're feeling more detached, if a bit numb.

Take care

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012