Just to point out it is a mixture of adinva and labug that you are referring to.
Oh yes, thanks for reminding me. Adinva, Bug, & Gabby are three ladies I really like. I can get fired up over a situation a LBS is going through and my first thoughts at reading the story is usually not as gentle as these three LBW's. They have patience and the insight from your side of the fence. They know how you feel. Plus, they are very sharpe cookies.
Then there's me. I try to give insight from the other side of the fence. LTH (I think are her initials), was a WAW and now finds herself as a LBW. She is experiencing both sides of that stinking fence!
So, I feel that all of us women can help you (okay, the guys can too) and you have to weigh it out and go with what you feel in your gut. You know your W better than anyone else. When you feel you are receiving opposing advice, just bear in mind that you have people here from both sides of the DBing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
