Grace, Love, Compassion & Faith - Huge Impact

[2thepoint]

...a few hours later she mentioned that we could talk but it couldn't be until August.

Geesh, no priority for her for you, is there?

Me: Gotcha well just to check back in with me when you get back into town.
X: Well how about this.. because I may forget, just reach out early August and we'll pick a day

Clearly not a priority...

And instead of being resentful about it... I have three options really.

1. Let the issue go.
2. Let the person go.
3. Teach them how I want to be treated.

And IMO - it's far TOO OFTEN that I chose number one.

Because I'm scared of #2

And because I don't know how to communicate #3

#3 - is what I tried to explain to xw without pressuring her or making her feel bad about forgetting..

... I just don't know if I succeeded.

How about 1 & 2. Let it go and let her go. I think it is time, don't you? (((Val)))