I met with the therapist and think he is a wonderful fit for the boys. I have real hope for the first time in a long time that the boys can and will heal from this. Doug will be required to find his own therapist and start dealing with his issues. My prayer is that, in time, we will find a new way to be a family. We don't need to live together to be supportive, kind and loving. No expectations, just a belief that it's possible.