Not confused...moving towards acceptance

[AJM]

he is gone, why won't he let me be?

MLC or not, why is he doing this? He cheated on me, left me, treats his kids horribly, doesn't provide financially, and no this....

I understand the frustration. Before my ex left the second time, she tried to get me to hit her. I never did, and never plan to. But it was an awakening for me. It was the moment I realized what she was doing. How she was "competing" and trying hard to paint me as the bad guy. And trying to fulfill that "vision" by pulling strings, pushing buttons, etc.

There's no telling why people do that. My ex is the same way and I've asked myself that question many times.

I don't know why. I know what is. It was the moment I realized it was time to walk away and not speak to her. It was the moment I realized with clarity that no matter what came up, or the accusations she threw at me, or what she said, it was better for me to go. And it was the moment I started to realize I would have to be the one to do the leaving even though she had left physically.

I don't know why they do those things.

As for the accusation, he still has to prove it. If you didn't do it, then it'll be hard for him to do that, right? Johnny law doesn't like to be mocked and I'm sure it'll work out just fine.

Try to relax and deal with it when you get there. I know it's not easy but try, yeah?

AJ