Not confused...moving towards acceptance

[BRNR]

And no, I didnt touch him on July 8th. He came to get the kids and asked how he would like to communicate about them. That was it.

[MrBond]

Were there any witnesses? It's going to be hard for him to prove if there were no police called or anyone to back him up.

What a douche.

[BRNR]

He put in the complaint that my children were present...no police called.

On July 3rd he tried to barge his way through the house and I put my hands up to block him...pushed him slightly trying to prevent him getting in. I called 911 and when I called on July 5th they said that I was listed as the accused. I put in a claim with internal affairs that same day. On July 8th he said I punched him and filed a charge.

[BRNR]

I really don't want to drag my kids into this....and they don't want to be. To top it off the night of July 3rd he played it up to the boys that I was to blame and how I was a bad mom for putting them through that. Now he is trying to get me convicted.

Where is the justice?

[BRNR]

Now I will have more attorneys fees...more missed time from work...and more crap in general....he is gone, why won't he let me be?

[MrBond]

Is he in law enforcement?

[BRNR]

No...but something is going on. MLC or not, why is he doing this? He cheated on me, left me, treats his kids horribly, doesn't provide financially, and no this....

I could end up in jail.

[MrBond]

It seems very surreal. Do you have legal representation? If not, then I suggest you get a L ASAP.

[AJM]

he is gone, why won't he let me be?

MLC or not, why is he doing this? He cheated on me, left me, treats his kids horribly, doesn't provide financially, and no this....

I understand the frustration. Before my ex left the second time, she tried to get me to hit her. I never did, and never plan to. But it was an awakening for me. It was the moment I realized what she was doing. How she was "competing" and trying hard to paint me as the bad guy. And trying to fulfill that "vision" by pulling strings, pushing buttons, etc.

There's no telling why people do that. My ex is the same way and I've asked myself that question many times.

I don't know why. I know what is. It was the moment I realized it was time to walk away and not speak to her. It was the moment I realized with clarity that no matter what came up, or the accusations she threw at me, or what she said, it was better for me to go. And it was the moment I started to realize I would have to be the one to do the leaving even though she had left physically.

I don't know why they do those things.

As for the accusation, he still has to prove it. If you didn't do it, then it'll be hard for him to do that, right? Johnny law doesn't like to be mocked and I'm sure it'll work out just fine.

Try to relax and deal with it when you get there. I know it's not easy but try, yeah?

AJ

[BRNR]

I am worried, but take whatever consequences given. He is upset because I filed for support...I am sure ow doesn't like that money will be coming this way, and she probably gave him the idea to do so, after all, she went with him to the cops the first time around.

I have a conference with the attorney tomorrow anyway and a counseling session. Not to mention calls into internal affairs about my original complaint from July 3rd when they listed me as the accused.

Can I say that h is certifiably crazy???

I am done with his non sense really...I do want him to go away, at least for now.

I changed my home number and blocked h from texting or calling my cell. Any contact he needs to have with me, he can have through email.

So next week court for assault, the following week, court for the civil actions(if I am not in jail).

I am tired...and hopeless.