Thanks for your replies above. AnotherStander I sent you a reply with some answers.

She moved in with her sister yesterday and I came home to an empty closet. Today, I came home and found where she dropped off her checkbook and keys to my vehicles (pickup truck and motorcycle). Now the question is whether or not I violate the 180 and let her know a FedEx package arrived for her, or wait a few days...

Still numb, sad and trying to figure this out. Again, I ask for your prayers and ask you stay in touch. So far it is the only thing keeping me sane...