Originally Posted By: Tallula
I'm great, lady!! Itchin' for more running! I've got my last 5k in 2 weeks...I'll be 38 weeks. Trying to run is little butt right out!

It hurts to see that stuff, but remember, it it NOT a real love. It's just not. Real love is baby puke on your shirt, and morning breathe. Whoever doesn't love that, isn't worth it to me. I'll take that over rainbows and butterflies any day! Rainbows fade...morning breathe is forever.


Hahahaha!! I literally lol'd...

I am so sorry your hurting again ruby. Unconditional love is unconditional however it does not mean we keep allowing ourselves to be in pain. It's tough but you need to stop putting expectations on his actions, he seems to move closer and you attach then something like this happens and bam a kick in the gut.

How can you maintain a loving relationship and somewhat protect your already hurting heart??? Is it simply a decision??? For me it was, my counselor asked me why I was angry at my W and I of course listed my grievances and she said "well forgive her, it really is that simple". Guess what? it was that simple. I still have emotions over my situation however the anger is just gone. Can it be that simple with detaching as well, simply a decision that we make?? Food for thought.

p.s. In my opinion your already extraordinary, just be yourself...

Luv ya, take care ((((R))))


You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.