Before reading this I had acted a little hastely calling a few attornys just for prices looks like it will cost between $1000 and $5000 to get divorced. So I called to let her know she backed petled a bit and said we should wait a bit. I found that interesting and now she called just to see how the day was and how work was oh and tell me that our 3 year old is acting out and she needs me to chat with him on the phone. What a roller coaster Im on but I will stay firmly planted maybe even further planted then before easier to do when a little bit more bitter after having the D dropped on me.