Even if it wasn't from her, someone knows something. The email had enough detail to raise my suspicions. I have stayed perfectly calm. I honestly have had no reaction at all. I've said all along that the real, deep hurt was simply him leaving. Hearing there's another woman can't possibly hurt worse than the fact that he left us. I think that's really true based on my reaction so far.
My text and email to her were perfectly polite, I just said I'd like to talk to her if she gets a chance, please call. I'm not mad at her. He's a big boy. He knew what he was doing, if he did in fact do anything with her. Of course I have no doubt she knew he was married based on who she is and how she knows him...but ultimately it's his responsibility.
