Hi Trying, Firt off I'm sorry to hear about your sitch. I find it curious that he was the one to leave. It is so easy to start piling on lbs when your stressed out sitting around wondering what to do about getting descent job. All I can say is I meant well in my job searches, I really did. Just seemed everything was too hard when it came to getting employment.And yes, I was stressed but, my WAW and I really never fought so I guess we both just suffered apart during this period. I know your probably right that I should stop initiating contact. I wait about 2 weeks and the when I dont hear from her i end up coming up with a somewhat valid reason to shoot her a short email. Such as when I was sending her mail to her and emailing her with a heads up it was heading her way. She went ahead and had her mail get forwarded by the post office directly now after initially asking me to do it for her. I had said she needed to do it online as there's an affidavit on there that the person requesting was indeed the one asking. I just dont imagine somehow that she will be curious with what I'm up to. two and a half months no real anything from her and it just feels like she wants done. But I guess we we can find out. Its been a week since our last email so I will just plan to go from that. I just dont feel it though.....


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