To clarify about emailing her regarding Friday and keeping it strictly about the kids.......you don't have to volunteer the other information of that paragraph right then. But at some point, she will ask how you feel about her suggesting you two work things out between you. I was trying to help you be prepared with an answer, whenever it came up.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
