Sorry that you're in this position, Ruby.

I want to reflect back what Bond said about the romanticism part of the H-XGF relationship. I CAN tell you for a fact that these thoughts and feelings are temporary based on the tons of letters I've recently read that my father has received from the wives, from GFs, and other bit players in the drama that they ALL have ended their A's. Every SINGLE one of them has died a natural death.

And would you know that my father and stepmother did reconcile after all that drama!? Yep...they did. So hold on to that thought, Ruby.