I'm keeping changes of myself and how treat my W on the forefront of my mind everyday. Communication has been the biggest difference in everything so far. I don't just lock away my feelings when I am mad and wait for them to explode like I use to. If something is bothering me, scares me or hurting me I am letting her know. She has been much better at getting her feelings out. Not good, but definitely working on it I can tell.
Our MC is putting us in touch with her mentor in atlanta so we will continue therapy. We also planning on attending Retouvaille in September in atlanta.
Thanks for keeping me straight Urworthy:)


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it