I am at a loss on what to do anymore.

[stungBT]

Yes I have read both DR and DB but had forgotten about that part. Sounds like a good time for me to reread. Thank you for the reminder.

Its been 6 nights and I have still had only two communications from him. One was the first night after I yelled at him and the other was a response to an email I had to send - not emotional stuff. House stuff.

I am sad and feel alone. I want him to miss me but it doesn't appear he does enough to share with me.

[Demoted26]

Hang in there!! He may be to into OW to miss you right this second....BUT them living together us going to forever reality into their relationship. Now they deal with each others quirks & bad habits. This is where he realizes she has flaws just like everyone else & life still isn't
"perfect" just because he's with her.

[stungBT]

They aren't living together. He rented a house for he and his daughter.

I received an email from him last night that that he thinks of me every day and dreamed about me last night. He said it was nice. I haven't responded and I don't know if I should, if I do what do I say

[JuneReN]

Don't reply, you will want to, but don't

[stungBT]

So he is coming over tomorrow afternoon to pick up some stuff. Any advice

[stungBT]

So he came over got his stuff and left. I spoke with him on the phone last night and it didn't go well.

I do not know how to let go of him. I do ok when he is not around but the minute I see him I get sad and needy.

[stungBT]

So its been a week since I wrote last. Not much has happened. He sent me some emails but I did not respond. I tried to be nice last week and got no response so I am not responding period. I really want to reach out to him but what good would it do.

I do not see anyway back from this.

[MrBond]

What have YOU been doing during all this?

[stungBT]

So we have been separated for 3 weeks as of today and what have I been doing.

I have been working out, trying to get back into my job, I had family visit, I am pursuing some alternative medicine for an injury I have had. I planned a trip to see other family at the end of the month. I have talked to my DB coach. I have read a couple of books - 2 fiction and 1/5 self help. I started eating better. I am working on ditializing my DVD library, seen several movies and a bunch of other stuff. Sometimes I cry but not as often.

I guess when I say I do not see any path back from this I mean in the relationship not in life in general. I know I will eventually be ok.

[stungBT]

Some important mail came for his Daughter the other day, so I contacted him. He did not respond,

Is this my punishment for something I don't know about or is this his way of saying something else.....