Circles no more

[shouldistillhope]

Update,

Final D papers are supposed to arrive in the mail in the next couple days. Thanks to everyone for their support and advice through all this.

I had my kids this past weekend and they told me that W has been leaving S7 at home by himself (he is going to be a 2nd grader) while she goes to excersise classes in the evenings. I asked him if she left him a cell phone to use in case he had an emergency, and he replied "no." Also, W has been having a 14 yr old girl pick them up from daycare on days she is home late from work when our daycare rules specifically prohibit anyone under the age of 18 to pick up our children. We also had to agree on a list of people who could indeed pick them up if we couldn't when we first signed them up for daycare, and most of the people who pick them up now are not on that list.

I mentioned this to W in a non argumentive manner especially noting that i was uncomfortable with leaving S7 home alone with no phone. Things can go wrong in an instant and it makes me nervous. She just looked at me and didn't say a word. I am quite angry that she would do something like this, and not even act like she did anything wrong.

I sent her a text the next day telling her i was not upset with her and i though she was a good mom, but i was uncomfortable with that situation. No reply. It's as if she thinks she doesn't have any responsibilities as far as the children go and she can come and go as she pleases.