Wow..!..my W has Om and she says they are just friends as well but I wonder....D(12) has said the same thing to me...that it does not bother her as much but she definitely does not want to see me with OW. I think you handled it well telling her that you would date but not when they are around. I guess girls are going to be protective of the Dads for a while even more so with WAS...happening...