Email W tomorrow. Get some clarification on what she wants to arrange between us. Something like:
Hi,
Could you tell me what it is exactly that you want to arrange between us?
T
(Really I'm asking if she wants a divorce or something else without putting words into her head.)
My stance on discussing things if it gets that far: - It will have to be in person. No email or text discussion about whatever it is we are to discuss. - One thing at a time. - I'm going to take the time I need to make a decision. - Any shouting, rude or obnoxious behaviour from W and will leave or warn her and leave during any discussions. - I will make notes and keep records of what was said.
This could easily change. Just want to let you guys know where I am right now, tonight.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
