New to This - An English Man In Trouble

[Hadlee58]

Hi F,
Thanks for replying, I hope you don't think I have dismissed anyone's advice, far from it, these guys have so much wisdom to pass on I would only be a fool not to take it on board. The problem I have and maybe I have given garbled messages is that my wife is dead against any counselling, if I could talk her into it believe me I would as you say what harm would it do, I feel I am stuck as If I push to hard on this it may prove the wrong move and I would fear I would push her into something she is not comfortable with, one of my problems to her has been that I have overpowered her in decision making.
I would like to apologise if you or anyone else thinks I am not grateful or open to advice or critisism, far from it... I am actively looking for it and maybe my words have come out wrongly, unintentional but I am big enough to apologise if I have offended anyone.
H