I agree with you Mr Bond K, not all Churches are like the one you describe. The Church I go to doesn't tell you what to do, etc. You don't have to go to Church to believe in God, but unless you read the bible daily then you won't know what God is teaching us. If you're going to Church on a regular basis, then you will get some sound teaching through the bible and the sermon. Why don't you try a different Church and see what that one is like. I hope it's not the same as the last one you went to, as that will put you off for life! I know you're not reading the bible else you would know that with God you have to have patience. God will fulfil your needs in his own time, which could take a while. He puts everything in order so that he will give you the best life that you can have. It is no good giving up now, God will not want you to do that. A good book to read is called "hope for the separated" which is a Christian based book on exactly what the title says. I don't know if you'll get to read this post as you seem to have gone off in a strop. Believe me when we say this to you that we are only trying to help. My Bond may not put it quite as gentle as I will, but the message is the same. Remember that in God's eyes marriage is sacred and should be saved unless in extreme cases. Our WAS's have got satan on their shoulder and satan is delighted that he's managed to split up the family home. God can defeat satan time and time again and if you're patient and have faith then he'll do that for you If you talk to anyone who's marriage has broken down, nearly all WAS's come home eventually. The problem comes when the LBS doesn't forgive them and has moved on. If you're not going to Church, then read your bible daily and search on the internet for Christian marriage guidance. There's another site I go to which is called rejoice marriage ministries. You can get a daily email from them which gives you hope for the future. She didn't give up on their marriage, even after D. They remarried two years after their D. Let go and let God deal with your sitch, trust that the Lord can do all this especially for you God bless and take care of yourselves and your children
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K, not all Churches are like the one you describe. The Church I go to doesn't tell you what to do, etc. You don't have to go to Church to believe in God, but unless you read the bible daily then you won't know what God is teaching us. If you're going to Church on a regular basis, then you will get some sound teaching through the bible and the sermon. 
