I don't even want respond. Looking for advice on how to handle it.
I'm not sure why you're asking, but I suspect that you really do want to respond. It's OK if you do, you can be honest with us. You can want to respond while choosing not to, that's a lot different than saying you don't want to respond.
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Some people think reality may be finally setting in for her. Don't know.
They're totally mind-reading. I wouldn't pay any attention to talk like that. You NEVER know what's going on inside the head of a WAS because they don't know either. The only thing you can be certain of is whether or not it shows on the outside, she IS confused and in turmoil. You will see a lot of conflicting signals from her. Just stick to your DB'ing, none of it means anything unless she approaches you to express hope for reconciliation.