The hardest decision - need advice, please!

[RosaLinda]

Hi DMR! I read your post on NLT's thread, and thought I'd come over to say hi. I glanced thru some of your old and newer threads, and am sorry you're going through such a hard time. 

I agree with Mr. Bond that you can save your marriage. My H has said the same sort of things about his first EA, she was wonderful and they DID talk for hours every day, then she became a jerk. His current EA/PA started as a bitch and user, and is now his soul mate. Sigh. I'm DBing (not always well) with the help of the good folks on this forum and my DB coach. 

But my H has definitely been going thru a MLC for almost 4 years. You just refer to your W as a WAS. Is she in MLC too? Has your coach instructed you to follow LRT? My coach told me not to. 

Good luck to you.