I'm sorry it got to this point.

Needless to say, that would have been a great time for YOU to validate her, but instead she ended up validating you. Yes you need to learn to keep your mouth shut. You especially shouldn't have told her... "I said WE have control issues."

For now, get legal counsel and figure out a payment plan. I would tell her that you would move, again it's cheaper. Be the man and be the one to move out. Try and give it space again.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER