I was wondering if she might like a copy of some of those old photos you found. Too painful?
Nope. It would be considered pursuing in the context of the OW most likely still in the picture. Will have to wait to see how things unfold and I'll act accordingly.
Bright,
Why not?! Go ahead and send H some jokey stuff. That is part of the re-building process...especially if the WAS is long-distance. If you got some jokey stuff from a friend, what would be your reaction? Smiles, laughs...that is a great thing, isn't it. Then they'll associate that with YOU.
Ruby,
It svcks being number 2, heh?! But it won't be for too long, right?
RT,
You can type the text and then find that picture to cut and paste on the second paper. Then you'll be all set! Good luck with that mini-project.