I agree with everything you say fartiltre Don't give up hope yet, even after you D. couples have been known to get back together after they D. Hopefully though it won't reach that stage. I am probably about the same position as you at the moment. My H is due to go to the lawyers any time now to start filing. I don't know when he's going and he never talks about it with me and likewise I don't mention it to him.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Don't give up hope yet, even after you D. couples have been known to get back together after they D. Hopefully though it won't reach that stage. I am probably about the same position as you at the moment. My H is due to go to the lawyers any time now to start filing. I don't know when he's going and he never talks about it with me and likewise I don't mention it to him.