I was going to pick the kids up Friday afternoon. The only thing spoke about the kids was she was having them last weekend so I presume I am having them this weekend. Unless I contact her asking if that is the case thats all I know.
If that's the agreement you have in place, the only question you should be asking is WHEN you are picking them up, not IF.
"W, based on our agreement I have the kids this weekend and would like to pick them up at #:## (time). Please confirm this time works.
Thanks, T1000"
^Communicating out of necessity only and firmly standing your ground with regards to your time with you kids. ASKING her if you GET them this weekend is weak posturing.
-PM
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