From the other thread you posted:

Originally Posted By: Annieg
Is there a compilation of posts anywhere dealing with living with your WAS when you want to be anywhere but???? Suggestions/experience on how some of you that may be dealing with now could provide...anything???


There are plenty of people here who continue living with a WAS, but you just have to start reading through threads to see which ones apply to your sitch. I've got to say that if he's already gone and just wants to move back for financial reasons and has no interest in reconciling, there is no way I'd let him back in. But that's your call, and if your financial situation is that dire then it's up to you.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57