Thanks, guys. Thumpered, good questions. Definitely working on those things, and it's something I've wanted to do for many, many years, but just couldn't get myself started down that road.
I had another visit with my counselor today. She's definitely the "let's delve into your past" type. She's heard of MWD and Divorce Busting, and even said "Michelle is great" but she's clearly not understanding the principles of the LRT. She seems perplexed that I wouldn't confront my wife right now about snooping in my journal, or try to talk to her about our R and what she wants. She seemed to want to argue about some of the specific "don't do" items on the list, but she dropped it and got back to digging into my childhood. That's ok, though, because she's here to work on me right now. It's just were her ideas and my ideas on DBing conflict that there's any issue.
