Thank you for your encouraging words on my thread.
If this had not happened to me, I am not sure I would believe it.
I think the fact that your H is in much more frequent is a very positive thing. While he may not be thinking of reconciling right now, he is obviously being very careful in his communications with you. At least it shows some effort on his part. By the time my xSO was done, I don't think he cared what he said to me.
If these relationships are meant to start again and become better, they have to start from somewhere.
