I learning to be brutally honest about who I am, no more faking it. If someone does not like me flaws and all then get the heck out of my life lol. Here's the kicker, I'm also a pretty awesome person... fun, willing for adventure, opens the door and gives up my seat for women, helpful, generous, funny, loves God and the list goes on. what I'm getting at is don't always look at the negative and try to "fix" everything.