MLC - He bought a Porsche in November, he has grown his hair out, become obsessed with pampering/ grooming, bought a whole new younger wardrobe. Left a stable, solid marriage that I thought was pretty good, been ignoring his kids for months. And is obviously having an affair with a younger woman...which is rather comical. I'm only 34.
I don't think an A itself is necessarily a deal breaker...I don't know. We'll see how he responds.
Quite honestly he's treated me like poo for the last year or more while wining and dining another woman, and lying about it to me the whole way. I'm not sure I necessarily want him back. But, I don't know. He may want to go off and marry her for all I know. Probably not though. I'm assuming she sent this email because she was mad, possibly because he tried to dump her -- he's been telling me he wants to work on the marriage.
Or maybe they both made someone else mad and that someone else decided to tell me? I don't know that it's really from her, though it claims to be.