Hola! I'm good. Some healthy, calm, family time with my big sister. She and her D17 have been staying with me since last Friday and will leave this weekend. My W is still on her last minute work trip. She comes home tonight. Going to dinner with me and my Sis.

W's birthday was yesterday. She was all alone in a far away city. When I drove her to the airport last Thursday I snuck a birthday card into her luggage. She was really surprised and thankful. I didn't do it for any other reason than to wish her a happy day. Being alone on your birthday stinks in my opinion!

So I don't know what the rest of the week holds. W knows how I am feeling. I know (for the most part) how she is feeling and I know she has to get her brother's car back to him so I see this going a couple of ways:

1- She asks me to follow her up to drop off the car and we come back home and go from there.

2- She says she is dropping off the car and will be back in a rental in a few days and we go from there.

3- She says she is dropping off the car and on her way there she stops at AP's house for a "fix" and reignites the A... I don't hear from her for a few days and then I get an email telling me and apologizing for not being able to tell me in person. Asking for more time and perching back up on her fence.

No matter what happens I am going to be freakishly calm. That is my intent. So calm that it confuses her! lol!!

Option number 3... the most probable option... is not an option for me. I think if that does indeed happen then I will be booking a cruise out of the harbor here for just me, myself and I. A little caribbean escape from the drama. Some sunshine for the soul. Hey... sounds good. I might just do it no matter what happens!


Me(F):40 WAW:44
T:13yrs M:9yrs
BD:2/12 (I saw a text)
ILYBINILWY: 5/12
PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11)
S:2/13
Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13
W moves home to R: 10/13