Wife said she was done! House sold, Moving forward

[Maritimer]

Thanks Mr Bond, Spartan, BKS and others for helping me understand where I can improve. Other friends have told me the same so I need to find that fine line of being assertive and not being an a$$. This will be a big 180 for me.

I did mention that she hurt the children's grandmother by un friending her on Facebook. It one of the only ways she get to see what her grandchildren are up to and seeing the new pictures. My mother is scared and intimated by her. I told her it was disrespectful and not necessary. Her reaction was no response and hung her head low.

This was all said in a calm firm tone. It felt good expressing feeling and not being fearing her reaction.

Im ordering a book called "No more MR nice guy" It should help me look out for myself and not be negatively affected by other peoples actions.