After reading this, I went back and read your other thread.
First, please don't be surprised if you receive some anger backlash now that you have shown him proof of what he has been denying.
I wouldn't say too much else about it at this point.
Many many times you have mentioned MLC. I am curious as to what exactly makes you think that is a possibility...
My X, is a MLCer. Its a long, hard, interesting road...
I don't know if an A is a deal breaker for you. You say you are willing to work on things IF he is. Sometimes, we have to be willing to work on things alone for a while...as much as we want to hear their commitment to it, more often than not, that doesn't come for a long time.
Anyway, we will talk more I think.
Cat
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox