Rock when ex and I lived together my L told me to change nothing. To keep paying for what I had been to leave ex to do what ever she wanted. This when on for about 1.5 years until she moved out. It is a hard place to be but I survived it and so will you. If you plan on discontinuing anything run it by your L 1st.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”