Isn't ignoring her or giving her the silent treatment a bit passive aggressive
No. Whether it's your W or anyone else, YOU'RE setting a boundary of how YOU will allow yourself to be treated.
Originally Posted By: T1000
and also could be seen as weak, as if I don't know how to respond in some way?
You have no control how she chooses to see it.
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