I wrote in your thread when you came here and it seemed like you listened and started working things. When things got better I backed hoping that VETS would take over and they did, but now I need to state my opinion!
You have received good advice from Bond and AS and please do read it all again! Do understand that these guys have seen it all more than once and that their advices are so well meant. DBing is counterintuitive and you are not home safe yet! If you doubt this then do read Crimsons thread!
Try to recall the feeling from March when she BD you! You posted this:
Originally Posted By: Hadlee
Any advice would be much appreciated: Am I too far gone that its time to give up? How can I make her see the good times? How do I work around her friends all giving her advice to move on? How do I handle these next 3-4 weeks in the same house? My heart is broken! I have offered to sleep on the sofa which I am, is this coming across as I would do anything? Do I need to toughen up? All she says is she wants to be happy, how can I get her to a place that I am part of that? Thanks in advance for any help!!!
You have been on/off with W for a long time – over a year as I recall! You state that you have always solved your problems yourselves but that got you here – next time could be final!!!
Isn’t it time to do this right: Counseling, Retrouvaille or something could help! How could it hurt??
Do try to read through the arguments from Bond once again!
Get help!
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Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
