I will start the paper work process and move on with my life
Just wanted to comment on this one!
If this is what you want then by all means go ahead, but do realize that her telling you that she wants D or even her filing doesn’t mean ANYTHING in this. It just a sign that she haven’t changed her mind YET! That’s all! She has been all over the place for weeks!
If you still feel like working towards possible R then do not do anything right now in regards of paperwork. Validate her feelings and leave the work to her! She wants this – she does the work!
Still remember Sandi2s rules and your 180s – continue as if nothing has happened until she comes to you with questions or papers!
The big question is: WHAT DO YOU WANT?
When you have answered this, the next one is WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO DO TO ACHIEVE THIS?
All the best!! F
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
