Isn't ignoring her or giving her the silent treatment a bit passive aggressive and also could be seen as weak, as if I don't know how to respond in some way?
I guess it could, but it seems like there is many different opinions on this particular subject!
IMO you and I share opinion on this one, but perhaps it is time for you to try a different angle! You have for a long time responded to your W so to stop would send some signal! PM and Sandi seems to agree and if I take out my opinion on answering questions I do as well To be honest it would pi$$ me off – a lot and that’s properly why I feel compelled to answer.
I do agree with Sandi:
Originally Posted By: Sandi
I still think she's playing you
I am still in doubt if she has even spoken to a solicitor. She has been trying to control and manipulate you for the last weeks and this could just be more of the same.
Let it rest for some days and see what happens. She could easily come on to you either spewing or sweet-talking.
If you feel compelled to answer I would go with an open-ended question into the subject of the agreement she mentioned and I would leave the accusation for now. This is not the time for fights! You are hurt and properly she is as well – nothing good will come of this. I believe this should be addressed – just not right now!
One more thing: You have a history into this texting/mailing thing and it seems to me that you often get it wrong when things are edgy. That’s where you are right now and that’s another reason for just leaving this be.
You will see W again this weekend as I recall – wait and see what happens then! When will you see her again? Friday?
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Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
