uR, this is great! I completely agree with every word you wrote. I just have to apply your advice every day, live my life and let H do what he needs to do.
Portia, you are right on the spot too. Detach with love is what I’ve been trying to do now. I think I’m getting somewhere with this… I know I will have some slide backs, but I think I’m heading in the right direction.
ReachingHigher, thank you for posting your experience and insights. I think everybody here who are still in the middle of this journey benefits from your posts. My H said the same words, that he thinks that I can find a better partner who would treat me right. However, when I told him that I agree with him and I also want a man who loves me, he said that he loves me, but just not in love with me.
Linda, you have to believe that your H will come out of the fog. And keep posting your “stupid thoughts” here. We are here for you.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
