Keep in mind that she has a cell phone and can call anyone anytime she wants and that I just asked her to leave the house when she makes these calls. Also, I didn't cut the phone off, I just ended 2 specific calls that I felt where inappropriate. But, I get your point.
She works outside the home, has her own money and pays her own personal bills (her cars - 3, credit cards, trips, etc...). It is the household bills that she refuses to pay. Primarily the mortgage, utilities, 401k loans, home equity loans, house insurance, etc... Unfortunately, I need to pay these bills. I guess I could default, but that is not me. Hopefully this will be taken into account when we discuss who gets the home.
I seperated all of our finances in Jan.
I do worry about false accusations. She has already told our kids things that are not true. For example, last night after I unplugged the phone, she told my 6 year that "Daddy is not going to let us have internet anymore"
I am not looking forward to this process, but I am ready to move forward, regardless of the result.
