Just catching up on your sitch tonight. You sound really strong in your conviction to not let others' judgments influence your decisions of actions.
People judge. Family and friends too. If someone they love gets hurt they want to see some sort of consequence for the person who did the hurting. It is human nature-for good or bad.
Forgiveness is difficult. Very difficult. And, unfortunately you have to let them deal w their own forgiveness toward your H on their own schedules.
Hopefully they will respect you and your decisions enough, though, to keep their thoughts to themselves and if you, his wife, can forgive his actions, then they should be able to do so also. If not, then that isn't your problem-it's theirs to deal with.
Sending lots of positive thoughts your way, T! Thinking about you a lot in the home stretch of your pregnancy. Be well, my friend!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
