AlAnon might help your wife but she has to want that help as others have said. Maybe at some point she will want to seek help but it has to be in her time, just like you getting sober was in your time.
There are many different styles around her, some may appeal to you some may not. Take what you can use and leave the rest.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
