I read and continue to keep up with your thread. Part of me is just shocked at what I am reading. First of all an online affair that he knows is happening because she wants a green card. Hello! Can you feel anymore used?
I have noticed that your h is back and forth being mean and nice. I don't think I realized that he was mean for 4 months. My h has been mean for about 3 weeks now and it is frustrating. He says he is done.
Though he said he broke it off with her I don't think he has but others think that is why he has been so mean.
I'm glad you decided to go to London, right? I loved it there and there is so much to do. It will be a good distraction for you while he is gone too. When are you leaving?
I think TVS is going to see a breakthrough on this trip and hopefully your h will too. It is about time don't you think?
I wouldn't say that it backfired with mil. I just think that right now he doesn't care what his parents think. Usually he does. I think his mom is very hurt at what he has done. She would like to see us back together though. She said that she doesn't understand how I could still love him and want to try and work it out after all he has done. I told her that there are some things I'm not proud of either. Her response....no one's perfect and we all make mistakes.
Yes. My h's OW has been described by many words, none of them good. haha. The funny thing is yes they affair down and usually friends and family of h have nothing nice to say about OW. How can they not get it?
I know they say it is horrible what they are going through. I am having a terrible time understanding how they can be so stupid! How can they not see what everyone else sees? It's kind of like knowing 2+2=4. Everyone knows it but they can't figure it out.
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